GREENSBORO, N.C. — When we think of the holidays, we think of families. And we think of people who you already know. Today, we're exploring connecting with long-lost relatives. People in your family that you may not have met or whom you haven't talked to or seen in many years.
The holiday season is a great time for a family reunion because people tend to get time off work. Also, there's something magical about the holidays because they feel more sentimental and a little more focused on family and togetherness. The spirit of the season naturally encourages us to open our hearts and reach out to loved ones, even those we've lost touch with. Plus, there's the festive cheer and the shared traditions; it all creates a perfect backdrop for meaningful connections.
There can be nervous excitement or dread in meeting new relatives or reconnecting after many years. What if they aren't who we expect? What if things are awkward? This nervousness comes from wanting everything to be perfect and from wanting everyone to be accepting of everyone. Remind yourself that the most important thing is to connect and get to know these people who share your blood.
Despite the shared blood, it's normal not to feel an immediate connection with long-lost relatives. It's quite understandable to experience a range of emotions, from excitement and curiosity to hesitation to uncertainty. You're meeting or reconnecting with strangers who share your DNA. Focus on getting to know them as individuals. Have an open mind and talk about their lives, passions, and experiences. Lower your expectations. This means don't expect an immediate, Hallmark-movie-style family bond. Building relationships takes time and effort. Focus on shared experiences and create new memories together.
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