GREENSBORO, N.C. — Trying to figure out how to celebrate the holidays can be tricky enough. But, add blended families to the mix, which can be trickier. Combining different family traditions doesn’t have to be a source of tension. Instead, include established traditions important to family members and create new ones. Realize that not everyone will be comfortable with the changes, so allow some grace for those who don’t want to participate in everything. Respecting different traditions is essential to avoiding problems.
Some children might feel conflicted about spending time with a new blended family. Divorced parents need to communicate the best way to handle schedules and time with each parent. Be flexible with schedules.
New stepparents and stepsiblings can left out or feel like they don’t belong.
Therefore, it’s important to include everyone in the activities. You also want to create opportunities for everyone to get to know each other better and spend time together. While together, it would be good to check in with each person to see how they’re doing.
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